Young women have the power to attract attention from men and other women.+�-� The more attractive the young woman, the more attention she receives.+�-� As women age, they slowly notice that they are not receiving as much attention as they used to…and they don’t like it!+�-� That was the gist of the discussion between a patient today and some of my female staff members.+�-� I took the cue to hightail it out of the treatment room and run for cover just in case the conversation turned to a “we hate all men” scenario.+�-� I’m brave in the OR but let’s face it I’m not stupid.
+�-�+�-�Seriously though, I have run +�-�across numerous women, in my career, that have had a difficult time adjusting to the perceived drop or lack of attention.+�-� They come to me seeking+�-�advice on how to look younger, more feminine and attractive.+�-� I remember the first time a woman explained her feelings about this situation.+�-� I like most men, never had…or will have+�-�this type of influence on women.+�-� For men,+�-�only the most attractive of us+�-�will ever have a taste of this level of attention.+�-� So we can’t really understand what it is that these women have lost.
+�-�Women go through a period of+�-�greiving when it occurs to them that they don’t turn heads like they used to anymore.+�-� Their words, not mine.+�-� It’s sad to them and I can understand how that would be a difficult thing to loose.+�-� We all want desperately to fit in…even more to be liked and to have someone pay attention to us and tell us that we are special.+�-� Loosing that clearly would create a sense of loss and depression.+�-� I see how that would cause, some women, to look to Plastic & Cosmetic Surgery as the answer to regain the glory, and attention, of days gone by.+�-� I try to explain to my patients that they should feel lucky that they ever had that experience and that instead of trying to get it back…focus on being the best that they can be at any age…any life situation…at any time.+�-� If you want Plastic & Cosmetic Surgery to improve your appearance so that you can be the most attractive version of yourself…right now today…I am all for it.+�-� If you are trying to look like you did years ago…that may be a problem because you are not that person anymore.+�-� Look, you can appear 10 years younger in 90 minutes with one of my Custom Minilifts and Radiesse (soft tissue filler) to shape the cheeks into a more youthful appearance…buy you’ll still be the same person inside that you are today.+�-� Learn to celebrate that person and the fact that you were forunate enough to have all that atention in the first place…even if it was in the past.
+�-�Just got out of the OR.+�-� Did a Minilift with Radiesse to shape the cheeks into a more youthful appearance….she looks+�-�10 years younger.+�-� It’s amazing, tomorrow, she’ll pull her hair down in front of her ears, put on makeup and go out. I even Use dissolveable sutures that don’t need to be removed.+�-� Did a Breast Augmentation on a 20 year-old.+�-� Saline breast implants to make her a small D Cup.+�-� She looks great!+�-� Consults for more Face Lifts and Rhinoplasty this afternoon.
+�-�Got an e-mail that two record labels may be interested in signing Ashton to a record deal…calling the entertainment attorney as we speak…I mean as+�-�I complete this entry.+�-� Also getting tickets for Evan to attend the Kids Choice Awards for his role on “Unfabulous”.+�-� That’s inbetween seeing postops, doing Botox to the vertical lines around the mouth and lips and seeing consults for Breast Augmentation, one for a Custom Minilift, one for a Rhinoplasty and another consult for Liposuction.+�-� Reviewing a piece on Celebrity Plastic Surgery.+�-� Somebody stop me…I’m on a roll and I love it!+�-� Reviewing a media piece on Celebrity Plastic Surgery.
Francis R Palmer, III MD





